How to find your truth in a world of no truth or 3 potentially painful lessons you make as entrepreneur when you first exit the matrix and how relationship skills help

Very often my task as couples coach is to build bridges, to help each other understand the other better. I feel lucky and grateful that the souls in my coachings are purpose-driven, and while they also face their ego themes and fears, you can see and feel their high intentions in their thoughts and actions.

We explore the concept of truth, opening a container for multiple viewpoints and perspectives to truth.

This is my personal blog and instagram, so let me build a bridge to another concept that crossed my mind, the other day, when I heard political leaders questioning and actually denying that the holocaust happened. These are moments where my whole body reacts in pain, because all that I believe in: high intention actions, building bridges gets shaken. Who are these leaders that shape future and history? and thereby our beliefs and ultimately leading to fear, fight and war?

In the here and now, it is so undeniable, that it happened, because I grew up with grandparents that saw and witnessed it, I can rely on that, others do too. However, can you see how, fast forward 50-100-500-1000 years later, these Zeitzeugen are no longer there, and a future is relying on what is written in books, or interpretations of artefacts, litterally trying to bring puzzle pieces together. Over and over again, this is what happens throughout time, puzzling together, puzzling together, with no possibility of ever reliving that exact moment and deriving at one truth. Its just not possible, as you can experience from just one moment in your private life, where you and your partner cannot agree on what happened just the day before…

For me, this contemplation moment was a powerful reminder, to continue developping my inner knowing and critical questioning, especially in a setting where you cannot assume highest intent but must assume hidden agendas and other’s interests, e.g. politicians and media follow their own agenda. (Side vent, how did we end up in a world were whistleblowers have become the group of humans sitting in jail, for their intention was to bring information to the masses. How come German media is cheering for chinese population to go on the street and demonstrate and a day later German polititians are asking for bigger penalties for activists who cause chaos at the BER airport. )

I will consider multiple perspectives but in those settings it is necessary to feel and express the clear NO - and this is so against my nature but ultimately your power is to not get lost in the complex. Assume the best but take not shit. And with this special groups, e.g. polititians it has become rare to potentially assume ‘the best’.

Keep your mind open and feel the distortion in history books, stories and opinions. The more you understand the power of the mind, of beliefs, of manipulation and how we create realities (positive and negative) with collective beliefs (e.g. watching movies and news, influencing collective realities), the better you become at spotting what is happening to you and around you. You might have had moments where you wondered, how a person like Trump can say these ridiculous things until one day you realize that he created and creates a reality with these words where in the end, his truth will be true.

So how can you prepare, decipher, strengthen your muscle for discernment? For me what I do is I read a lot, I question even more, I consider multiple sources, I keep a mindset of non-judgement, however I follow the money and power interests of story lines which is very easy and not often done… and ultimately I contemplate, connect with the morphic field or collective consciousness, ask my ancestors and I will find an answer in my body that provides guidance in the now, while staying open for new possibilities to unfold.

Dont outsource your brain and brain capabilities to the internet!

To continue this thought experiment and how history and future is being shaped, let me share another aspect.

Sidenote: going the path as entrepreneur, really feels like often, not even voluntarily you are forced to understand the powers of capitalism, patriarchy and how the matrix or system all around us work. I have so many eye opening moments, since I quit my job.

So as I was preparing my conscious relating masterclass, I was looking for pictures capturing the essence of masculine and feminine energies.

I used several databases for photos and was SHOKED by what was shown, that clearly had nothing to do with these natural and sacred energies. While I would find pictures that were good enough for feminine, when I entered masculine, I felt heart broken. The only images I could see, was a man with beer, or on the couch, or a lion… that was more or less it. I continued the experiment and searched how concepts like: love, sex, tantra, erotic, sensuality, bdsm would be captured…

Love was the only accepted term. All other terms led me to a page that informed me that these terms are prohibited, not existant in their database.

Wow, I know that in this world we have photographers who are capable to capture the most beautiful, esthetic pictures of sensual settings - why are they prohibited? I mean not even allowed behind an age barrier. No it is as if this database wants to have us forget these acts exist.

Bare with me a moment, to share a second example. I was preparing a advertisement campaign and in my picture I had a slogan that went something like “no matter the s#hit you faced this year, its time to Recharge & Glow”. That was my attempt to find a catchy statement for an online course for couples that I promote at the end of every year. In the description text, I used words like relationship, partner, loved one but also intimate. The ad got automatically rejected - automatically meaning by an algorythm or AI because of improper use of grammar or prophanity. I was informed that I was not allowed to use symbols in an improper way.

I concluded the S#it was the problem, with # or with h it would not be allowed. Wow, the barrier to end up in social media jail is low! I took out the word, and yet, the ad still did not comply. To this day, I dont know and understand what the problem was. You must understand the power a company like M has, it’s at their discretion, and no helpful or debatable information must be shared.

What do these scenarios remind you of?

While I can get my head around the intention of stopping certain vulgar and criminal ads, pictures, etc. I wonder if we are better of in a world where sexuality, and vulgar language is completely erraded. Because this is where my mind took me: it feels like with the power of the internet and influence of a few big companies, we will eventually lose all images and ideas around what masculinity and femininity could mean, around sexuality and exploring it in a healthy way and eventually only a few will remember words to even ask and share sensuality.

What do you think how many years and generations will it take for us to forget who we as humans are?

Sitting in Asia, I can count on a few fingers the men and the women that I see in their essences. Especially men I see on the phone, all masculinity died already years ago, I see lost souls with no idea how to bring power back into their body and mind.

Going back to the beginning, can you see how in 50-100-500-1000 years there might be a generation that will not remember or believe in a holocaust, in sexuality, in polarity, in any of these concepts of the past because it might no longer fit into the political story that is being send to the masses.

What can we do, I shared in a previous blog, the importance and concept of sharing wisdom and knowledge with your ancestors, your tribe, listen to the mystical or medicinal songs and metaphors of old, ancient times, but most importantly enducate and empower yourself and others to question, to think, to awaken your own inner wisdom, build a relation with your knowing, and your surrounding because ultimately time is relative and if this is true, than all wisdom is in the now, if only you learn how to tap into it.